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People who share the Mediator personality type share a tendency to not only strive to learn and grow as principled, moral individuals, but to bring likeminded people on that journey with them. In their own subtle, often shy way, Mediators want to lead others forward, as kindred spirits – they will find no greater opportunity for this than in parenthood. From the start, Mediator parents are warm, loving and supportive, and take immeasurable joy in the wide-eyed wonder of their children as they explore, learn, and grow. People with the Mediator personality type will give their children the freedom they need to do this, keeping an open mind and letting their children gain their own sense of understanding. At the same time, Mediator parents will try to provide a backdrop to this freedom and experience, establishing a set of morals and values that guide that liberty with a sense of personal responsibility. Mediators never stop encouraging their children to learn ...

The true friends of people with the Mediator personality type tend to be few and far between, but those that make the cut are often friends for life. The challenge is the many dualities that this type harbors when it comes to being sociable – Mediators crave the depth of mutual human understanding, but tire easily in social situations; they are excellent at reading into others’ feelings and motivations, but are often unwilling to provide others the same insight into themselves – it’s as though Mediators like the idea of human contact, but not the reality of social contact. How Poor Are They That Have Not Patience In a lot of ways, this limits the potential pool of friends to other types in the Diplomat Role group, who are able to pick up on the subtle clues left by their Mediator friends, and who are more likely than not to enjoy something of a human enigma. A friendship with a Turbulent Executive (ESTJ-T) on the other hand, governed by social conventions and...

Mediators are dreamy idealists, and in the pursuit of the perfect relationship, this quality shows strongest. Never short on imagination, Mediators dream of the perfect relationship, forming an image of this pedestalled ideal that is their soul mate, playing and replaying scenarios in their heads of how things will be. This is a role that no person can hope to fill, and people with the Mediator personality type need to recognize that nobody’s perfect, and that relationships don’t just magically fall into place – they take compromise, understanding and effort. Love All, Trust a Few, Do Wrong to None Fortunately these are qualities that Mediators are known for, and while it can be a challenge to separate long-fostered fantasy from reality, Mediators’ tendency to focus their attention on just a few people in their lives means that they will approach new relationships wholeheartedly, with a sense of inherent value, dedication and trust. Mediators share a sincere belief in the idea of ...

Too Idealistic – Mediators often take their idealism too far, setting themselves up for disappointment as, again and again, evil things happen in the world. This is true on a personal level too, as Mediators may not just idealize their partners, but idolize them, forgetting that no one is perfect. Too Altruistic – Mediators sometimes see themselves as selfish, but only because they want to give so much more than they are able to. This becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, as they try to push themselves to commit to a chosen cause or person, forgetting to take care of the needs of others in their lives, and especially themselves. Impractical – When something captures Mediators’ imagination, they can neglect practical matters like day-to-day maintenance and simple pleasures. Sometimes people with the Mediator personality type will take this asceticism so far as to neglect eating and drinking as they pursue their passion or cause. Dislike Dealing With Data – Mediators are often so...

Idealistic – Mediators’ friends and loved ones will come to admire and depend on them for their optimism. Their unshaken belief that all people are inherently good, perhaps simply misunderstood, lends itself to an incredibly resilient attitude in the face of hardship. Seek and Value Harmony – People with the Mediator personality type have no interest in having power over others, and don’t much care for domineering attitudes at all. They prefer a more democratic approach, and work hard to ensure that every voice and perspective is heard. Open-Minded and Flexible – A live-and-let-live attitude comes naturally to Mediators, and they dislike being constrained by rules. Mediators give the benefit of the doubt too, and so long as their principles and ideas are not being challenged, they’ll support others’ right to do what they think is right. Very Creative – Mediators combine their visionary nature with their open-mindedness to allow them to see things from unconventional perspecti...

Seperti manusi pecinta dunia, dengan banyak aktivitas yang melelahkan dan rindu tempat beristirahat, akhir akhir ini aku selalu singgah pada suara awan yang tengah mengudara. Suara awan membisikkan padaku untuk lebih mengenali diriku. Terhentilah jejak historyku pada sebuah jendela yang mengajakku mencari tahu siapa aku. Beginilah mereka berkata: Kepribadian Mediator adalah idealis sejati, selalu mencari celah kebaikan bahkan pada orang atau kejadian terburuk sekalipun, mencari cara untuk membuatnya menjadi lebih baik. Walaupun mereka mungkin dirasa pendiam, tidak ramah, bahkan pemalu, Mediator memiliki api dan semangat di dalam dada yang benar-benar dapat bersinar. Mencapai 4% dari populasi, sayangnya, risiko merasa salah dipahami cukup tinggi bagi tipe kepribadian Mediator – tetapi jika mereka menemukan orang yang memiliki kecenderungan yang sama untuk diajak berbicara, keharmonisan yang mereka rasakan akan menjadi sumber kesenangan dan inspirasi. Mediator dipandu oleh prinsip me...