The Ways to Know Your Love Languages
First, observe how you most often express love to the others. If you are regularly doing acts of service for the others, this may be your love language. If you are consistently, verbally affirming people, then Words of Affirmation is likely your love language. What do you complain about the most often? when a loved one says Happy Birthday and you respon, "You didn't get me anything?!" you are indicating that Receiving Gifts is your language. The statement, "We don't ever spend time together," indicates the love language of Quality Time. Your complaints reveal your inner desires. (If you have difficulty remembering what you complain about most often, I suggest that you ask a friend or family member. Chances are they will know.) What do you request of others most often? If you are saying "Did I do a good job?" you are asking for Word of Affirmation. "Do you think we could hangout this weekend?" is a request for Quality Time. "Wo...