Introvert Struggle

I'm an introvert. And it will take time for an introvert to let their guard down, to open their heart. They will move slow and take their time to really get to know you before they commit because they want to be sure.

It take patience to understand that an introvert is secure in their own life, so it will take effort to prove to them that they are safe with you, that you have good intentions. Through soul searching they've learned what they're looking for and what they will not settle for. They believe that nothing is worth jeopardizing themselves, which is why it sometimes takes so long for them to open up.

But be assured that when an introvert's walls come down and they allow themselves to fall in love with you, their love will not falter. They will make sure you know that they only have eyes for you, and you will never doubt their love. It's not always easy for them to connect but when they finally do, the connection will be solid.

Although an introvert has spent a lot of their life quietly observing people, they don't want to know about the affairs of others. They focus on what's right in front of them: their own lives, their relationship, their personal development. They understand steir own faults, and are constantly trying to better themselves by working through their issues.

They know their limits, and you will learn them too... When to push, when to pull back. You'll realize that an introvert can sometimes be honest to a fault because they say what they mean.

But they have a quite confidence about them. They don't try to please people, and don't need validation from others. You've fallen in love with someone who's always been self sufficient. Someone who was fine on their own before you & will be fine if you're gone.